Dress Your Inner Goddess for after 50

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How to dress your age is easier than ever to do beautifully, fashionably, and fun. "There aren't any nice clothes for older women," is out-of-date.

Today's dress looks run the gamut. Dressing somewhere in between those two extremes is the best choice for female professionals in their fifties. Suits are out; separates are in. Mix, match and layer wardrobe essentials and accessories; you'll not only look chic, you'll expand your wardrobe while saving money.

Office Dress for after 50

First, update your styles and your style rules. For example, ditch the boxy blazers with shoulder pads and accept that it's OK to wear white after Labor Day. Next, invest in tailored pieces that flatter your figure and are made of quality fabrics like cashmere, wool and cotton. Talbots, Ann Taylor and Jones New York are good sources for these wardrobe basics.

Some classic pieces for your wardrobe:

• Crisp white shirt
• Wool pants with some stretch in black, navy, gray or khaki
• Year-round leather jacket
• Four types of shoes: a low-heel sling-back in black, a flat for work and comfort, an evening shoe, and a casual shoe like a moccasin for weekends
• Pencil skirt fitted for your body-type that hits mid-knee
• Trench coat

Now, mix it up:

• Do mix prints, but match them according to color tone.
• Don't match your handbag and shoes.
• Do mix in bargain pieces (accessories, tops) with quality basics.

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The Season of Jeans for any Age

One thing you can wear in your 50s (and at any age) is a nice pair of jeans. Until recently, the choice for women in their fifties was limited to elasticized "mom jeans." Fortunately, manufacturers are now designing jeans for every body type, making it easier to find a flattering fit.

A pair of well-fitting jeans is worth the investment. Take the time and try on a variety of sizes and styles to find the most flattering, age-appropriate fit. Be aware of the following five areas when you choose a pair of jeans:

1. The rise from the crotch to the top of the waistband should fall between the low-rise teenage cut and the high-rise "mom jean" cut.
2. The color should be true blue or a dark wash; avoid tears, holes, embellishments or embroidery.
3. The cut or shape of the jean will have an impact on your shape. The boot-cut, with a slight flare at the bottom, provides balance to the hip. And trouser jeans are flattering, with a wider leg, wider waistband and flat front.
4. Cotton denim with 2 to 3 percent Lycra allows for stretch and is more comfortable than 100 percent cotton, which can sag after a few hours of wear.
5. Pocket size and placement as well as stitching finish off the look. Check your backside.

Once you have the perfect pair of jeans, complete the look with a classic top, a fun accessory and the right shoe. Keep in mind, the narrower the leg opening, the more delicate the shoe. And never wear tennis shoes with jeans. That's an outdated look.

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Evening Looks for Women in their 50s

There's no reason to go out for a night on the town dressed like the mother of the bride. For most black-tie events, long is no longer the rule. Dress lengths for women in their 50s range from floor-length to knee-length and everywhere in between.

Finding the perfect dress for a black-tie event is always harder when you wait until the last minute. Plus, you tend to spend more. Keep an eye out for the dress of your dreams year-round so you'll be ready when the invitation comes along; or you can always fall back on that famous wardrobe staple, the little black dress.

For women of any age, a black dress is perfect for an evening out, and the perfect black dress is one that is versatile enough to take you from business functions to the red carpet. Follow the guidelines for choosing a style to compliment your body, and dress it up with jewelry, shoes, an elegant evening bag and a wrap. Be careful not to go overboard with too much bling.

Too Sexy For My Shirt

Dressing for sex is about acknowledging ourselves as sexual women—it’s about letting the world know that being over 50 isn’t an ending, it’s a beginning. A juicy, tantalizing, energizing time of life.

A confident woman doesn’t need to dress like a high-class hooker in order to project her sexuality.If this is new for you and you’re reluctant to invest in sexier clothing there are things you can take from your existing wardrobe. Remember that men are visual and easily pleased. If he’s not used to seeing the sexier side of you, then you can improvise.If his last woman was into leather and latex, you may need to go shopping.

Here are a few simple suggestions:

• Show up in one of his shirts with just a pair of panties.
• Do you have a low-cut bra? Or one that’s unpadded? Pair it with a form-fitting cardigan sweater, leaving a button or two unbuttoned. The goal is to let him catch a glimpse of cleavage. Or an erect nipple peeking out.
• Sometimes all it takes to entice a man and make you feel sexy is to talk to him.  Describe your lacy demi bra or tell him you’re not wearing panties. Talk about the softness of your cashmere sweater, or the silky slip that clings to your thighs as you walk. You’ve instantly transformed your everyday clothing into something magical and fascinating. He’ll be captivated.

If you’re ready to ramp it up go lingerie shopping. Buy a lacy sheer bra or some new silky panties. Over the thigh hose are sexy but they don’t always stay up! Online lingerie shops offer a wide range of sexy clothing, from the tasteful to the downright slutty.

Whatever you decide to do—buying red F-Me pumps or replacing the old cotton panties—you are as sexy as you feel. Put yourself in the mood. Give your body some attention, love it, and show it off. For yourself or for a man, I guarantee you the thrill you get from dressing sexy will make it worth the effort.

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A woman who dresses in well-made, well-fitting clothes can feel confident and that confidence will make her look better than anyone else in the room.